Submit a Question to . . . At the Fence
Serious questions about relationships,
parenting or abuse issues are welcome. Your questions will be dealt with in confidence.
All e-mail records on my computer will be erased after I have answered your question.
Free answers on this site. Due to the large amount of spam I
receive, please send questions using this
form. This will ensure I open the email and will leave no trace on your computer.
If you wish to keep a copy of your question on your computer, simply cut and paste
it into your word processor program and save it as a text file. .
No reference will be made to you by name.
No names or e-mail addresses will be given out to anyone. I will not contact you by
e-mail, or any other way.
Exceptions:
1. With your permission, I may request more information, ONLY if you have stated I may contact you by e-mail.
2. If you request it, I will send you a brief note telling you that your answer is up. This will save
you the effort of repeatedly visiting the website to check for your question.
I gladly answer questions free of charge,
but am not able to reply to questions
personally (through e-mail).
Answers will be posted as soon as possible. Occasionally, I take time off, and
leave a message here stating when I will resume answering letters. Also,
occasionally e-mail arrives in a jumbled fashion, making it impossible to read it. If you
do not see your answer within a week, resubmit the question.)
Use this form which should leave no record on your computer.
You will be returned to this site after sending your question. Please note,
although the form says your email address is required, it is not. You can leave that part
blank. As for your name, you can use your first name, or make one up.
Finding your free posted answer:
Bookmark, or make note of the address of
the contents page. (http://www.atthefence.com/contents.htm)
When you return, scroll down to 'latest
letters' and look for your letter
there. You should be able to recognize it by the descriptive title.
Answers are listed there about a month. If
you don't find your letter there, check on the topic pages: abuse issues, relationships, religious issues, single scene or
parenting. Each topic page has the
latest letters at the top of the list.
For Best results for all questions:
Please include information such as ages, sex and relationships of the people involved,
length of relationship and so forth. This will help me answer the question.
