I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We have been
living together for 1 1/2 years. About 4 months ago I found a girl's number in his pocket.
I confronted him about it but he said that it wasn't his that he must of picked it up by
accident from one of his friend's house.
Then 2 weeks after that a friend of mine told me that he had
slept with a girl with the same name that was on the piece of paper I found in his pocket.
I confronted him again on it and he got really upset and said that he would never do such
a thing. Now, 4 months later my roommate's ex boyfriend who is also friends with my
boyfriend, was talking to my roommate and he mentioned the fact that my boyfriend had sex
with this girl. I asked him how did he know about that and he told me that my boyfriend
told him that he had sex with this girl.
So I confront him again about it and he tells me that he
doesn't remember telling this friend anything about having sex with any girl. I don't know
who to believe or what to do. I just want the truth and I just keep getting pushed back
from it. I love my boyfriend to death. I have always been here for him through the good
and the bad. But this knot in my stomach gets worse by the day when I think about this.
Is is true or is it not?. I don't know what to think or do.
Please help. Do you think my boyfriend is lying to me and is hiding something
from me or should I just brush this off my shoulders since only two people that I know say
that he did have sex with this girl.
PLEASE REPLY ASAP!!!
HELP.
Dear Help.
I don't know if it's true or not. Neither do you. I always
say that until you know something for sure you shouldn't be bothered about rumors. You
asked him and he denied it. Relationships are built on trust. It's true that some people
take advantage of that, but if you want a good relationship, you have to take the chance.
If he's fooling around with other women, and you find out for
sure that he is, then you can end it. But don't make matters worse by checking up on him,
or looking for evidence. If he's innocent, that will ruin the relationship for sure. Just
let the truth come out by itself.
Under the circumstances, if it turns out that the rumors are
true, I wouldn't bother asking for explanations or giving him another chance. He will have
proven that he can't be trusted to be faithful or tell the truth.
Best Wishes
